Welcome to the June 2009 edition of recovery from childhood sexual abuse.
This edition was dedicated to exploring Self-Harm. Some of the contributions are directly about self-harm, others are about coping skills to help people not to harm themselves. As always, a
special THANK YOU to all readers for their contributions. I trust you
will
have an interesting read and I am looking forward reading your feedback
if you have any!
Suicidal Feelings posted at Befrienders Worldwide, saying We are born with the ability to take our own lives. Each year a
million people make that choice. Even in societies where suicide is
illegal or taboo, people still kill themselves. For many people
who feel suicidal, there seems to be no other way out. Death describes
their world at that moment and the strength of their suicidal feelings
should not be under-estimated – they are real and powerful and
immediate. There are no magic cures.
Self-harm (Self-Injury) posted at Befrienders Worldwide, saying People
harm themselves in many ways, including cutting or burning, pulling out
hair, hitting their bodies against something, drinking heavily or
taking excessive amounts of drugs which can lead to an overdose.
There
are many reasons why people self harm and the meaning for each person
is unique but it is very often a way of dealing with very difficult
thoughts and feelings and is often kept secret.
Self-harm and your relationships posted at TheSite.Org, saying Self-harm can be difficult for friends, family and even professionals
to accept. TheSite.org looks at how relationships with people in your
life might be affected and gives you suggestions for dealing with it.
Sexual Assault Awareness posted at Let's Talk about Race. saying When my intern first suggested I write a post in April about this being Sexual Abuse Awareness Month, I thought, “Yeah, I can do that.” I started the research and found information and statistics. But nothing was clicking in my head to write about. Then I started thinking about my own childhood and victimization.
Trapped Within my Body posted at Survivor's Revolution, saying I have never felt like my body was mine. For the majority of my life it
really wasn't. It was just something I put up with while other people
did as they pleased. Its no surprise that when things really got out of
control, I started cutting myself.
Letters to My Therapist (2007/2008) posted at Secret Shadows, saying, "This is a series of posts consisting of emails sent to my therapist during my recovery from sexual abuse. The posts are listed in chronological order and cover many topics that present themselves during the course of therapy."
Letters to My Therapist (2009) « Secret Shadows posted at Secret Shadows, saying, "This post contains several entries consisting of email correspondences to my therapist during my treatment from sexual abuse. These are NOT posted in chronological order. These are posted in reverse. To read in chronological order, scroll to read the last one first. The posts reflect a variety of topics relevant to recovery from sexual abuse."
Art Therapy posted at Secret Shadows, saying, "Art Therapy has been very helpful to me during my recovery from sexual abuse. Art was my voice when I couldn't find it. This link will take you to all my posts listed under the category "Art Therapy"."
Bloom Where You're Planted posted at Secret Shadows. saying t is not what happens to us that maps out our life. It’s not the cards we’re dealt. Instead, it’s what we do with that that creates our life. It’s how we choose to play those cards that matters most. What happens to us, happens to us. What we choose to do with that, makes us who we are.
25 Ways to Avoid Self-Injury and Prevent Self-Harm « Discussing Dissociation posted at Discussing Dissociation, saying, "Thanks heaps for including my first submission to your April blog carnival — I appreciate that!
I am including an article for the Self-Harm category. This list of helpful ideas was compiled as a combined effort from a group of survivors who struggle with self-harm. I encourage survivors to try as many things from the list as they need to, one after another, until they can reach a place of safety.
Thanks again,
Kathy Broady
(aka Kathy_B_from_AC on twitter)"
25 More Ways to Avoid Self-Injury and Prevent Self-Harm « Discussing Dissociation posted at Discussing Dissociation, saying, "Hi, it's Kathy Broady again.
This is the second article also related to self-harm. It is actually a continuation of the first article I just submitted to you. I don't know if you will / can accept two articles, but they were both created from the same group of survivors who struggled with self-harm. There are no repeats of ideas. Each list of 25 is unique to the other.
Thanks for your consideration of these articles,
Kathy
(aka Kathy_B_from_AC on twitter)"
100+ Ways to Spring Clean Your Mind and Body posted at Surgical Technician Schools. saying meditation is a mental discipline in which the individual uses simple mental exercises to enter a deeper state of relaxation or awareness. Anyone looking to cleanse their mind would do well to follow one or more of the meditation practices listed below.
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