Ending the Silence for Sexual Abuse Survivors
Marjorie McKinnon is the founder of The Lamplighters, a rapidly growing movement for recovery from child sexual abuse and incest. The Lamplighters, originally conceived as a support group for those going through the REPAIR program, soon became a stand alone movement that has grown in the space of a few months from one chapter in the small northern Arizona community where McKinnon lives to 34 chapters in three countries. With so much recent news regarding child sexual abuse, the Lamplighters is a badly needed resource.
McKinnon is also the author of four books on recovering from child sexual abuse, and has lectured on her subject around the country.
It is a subject she knows well. McKinnon was raped by her father when she was thirteen and ran away from home at the age of eighteen after a beating by her father that almost killed her. She spent the next almost three decades going from one abuser to another before she entered a program of recovery at the age of 45. Half-way through recovery she found out that her two older daughters had been sexually abused by her second husband.
Her youngest daughter had been raped at gunpoint when she was 17. This underlines the reality that children of an untreated child sexual abuse victim stand a five times greater chance of being molested themselves.
Her book, REPAIR Your Life: A Program for Recovery from Incest & Childhood Sexual Abuse (adult version) has recently been released by Loving Healing Press and is a compilation of everything she learned in her own recovery.
"Anyone wanting to recover from the life-long trauma of childhood sexual abuse will benefit from this book,” says Marcelle Taylor MFT, a well known child sexual abuse specialist in the Los Angeles area. “It will become the reader’s wise and trusted companion along the road to wellness.”
The children’s version has also been released by Loving Healing Press. It is titled REPAIR For Kids: Ms. Taylor has this to say about the children’s version:
“Margie, your Repair book for kids is awesome!!! dynamite!! and I wish I had had something like this a long time ago for my sad and shamed "little girl" within. I can't think of anything I'd change. You have covered it all and with wonderful sensitivity, perfect timing and terrific repair exercises. I love the cartoons and the colorfulness of your book as well.”
McKinnon says, “We need an army, a united voice! Starting a Lamplighter chapter is so easy, costs nothing and is a wonderful opportunity to make a difference in this war against child sexual abuse. You don’t have to be a therapist or a survivor. You can be an advocate.”
REPAIR Your Life and REPAIR For Kids is available through all major book distributors as well as off the Loving Healing Press website and The Lamplighter website at www.thelamplighters.org .
Ms. McKinnon can be contacted at Margie@thelamplighters.org. Reviews for the children’s version can be found on Amazon.com under REPAIR for Kids: A Children’s program for Recovery from Incest and Childhood Sexual Abuse. Click here for the link to the Reuters review of the adult version